Looks vs. Character
Hi everyone!
Happy Chinese New Year and Awal Muharam to everyone. It was a nice long holiday for most of us. I hope everyone got back home safely and kudos to those who adhered to the speed limit on the highways. As usual, the holiday hiatus caused massive traffic along the roads leading up north and down south..but the roads in KL were clear!
I've been reading a blog recently, by a lady friend of mine, well, not exactly a friend, but more of an acquaintance actually, hope to a be a friend soon...about the above topic, she had some very interesting views on it and knowing me, i have my own opinions on things...
Well, as with most guys, i do go for looks, this i have to admit cause i'd be lying thru my teeth if i said i didn't! and yes, call me a chauvinist pig..I'd love someone with nice hair, good features, cleavage, nice ass and long legs...a claire forlani(meet joe black heroine) lookalike or maybe a sienna miller kinda girl, i'm sure you get my drift. I mean which testosterone filled guy wouldn't want to be seen next to one of these lovely creations of God, i know i do and i admit it.
But! yes there is a but, i want more than just looks, i need someone with personality and character to match. I need someone whom i can have an intelligent conversation with, talk stuff like politics, life maybe even sports, who knows, i dun want someone who just knows the new in colour for lipstick or the new handbag designs by gucci and prada..someone whom would keep me amused by her intelligence, rants, brickbats and opinions on things and not just rely on her physical attributes to keep me amused, altho it will for a period of time i admit! i'm a guy for God's sake!
I admit i'm not a gorgeous catwalk hunk with a six peck for a tummy, i'm just a normal guy who walks in shopping malls with a tummy and a silly grin on my face. I know i wouldn't be able to pull girls like flies with my looks nor would i be able to pull girls with my brains...I'm just a simple guy who knows or at least thinks he knows what he wants from a girl. I'm not looking for some gorgeous babe who is good in bed, i'm satisfied if she is plain ordinary looking or just pleasing to look at, but the more important thing for me is her personality and character. I mean looks will go off once you reach a certain age, things start sagging, wrinkles all over and cellulite might make an appearance too!! no operations involved of course! but what stays with you the rest of your life is your personality and character. i dun think my sexual appetite/libido will still be there once i'm 65 ok!!! altho i do hope for it!!!I just want someone whom i can still have a healthy conversation with, not bitchy all the time, some of the time is ok..basically someone whom i'm comfortable with in my old age so i won't die of boredom first!
Am i asking for too much? Am i asking for the perfect girl? Is it wrong for me to want something? Is it wrong for me to dream of getting someone like how i described, i think not. The catch or precaution is always that you have to keep an open mind about these things. You cannot expect a claire forlani with the brains of a NASA scientist, altho there are a few like that!! You have to look at yourself truthfully and think, who will be attracted to a guy like you? then you can scale down your expectations and hope for the best.
Happy Chinese New Year and Awal Muharam to everyone. It was a nice long holiday for most of us. I hope everyone got back home safely and kudos to those who adhered to the speed limit on the highways. As usual, the holiday hiatus caused massive traffic along the roads leading up north and down south..but the roads in KL were clear!
I've been reading a blog recently, by a lady friend of mine, well, not exactly a friend, but more of an acquaintance actually, hope to a be a friend soon...about the above topic, she had some very interesting views on it and knowing me, i have my own opinions on things...
Well, as with most guys, i do go for looks, this i have to admit cause i'd be lying thru my teeth if i said i didn't! and yes, call me a chauvinist pig..I'd love someone with nice hair, good features, cleavage, nice ass and long legs...a claire forlani(meet joe black heroine) lookalike or maybe a sienna miller kinda girl, i'm sure you get my drift. I mean which testosterone filled guy wouldn't want to be seen next to one of these lovely creations of God, i know i do and i admit it.
But! yes there is a but, i want more than just looks, i need someone with personality and character to match. I need someone whom i can have an intelligent conversation with, talk stuff like politics, life maybe even sports, who knows, i dun want someone who just knows the new in colour for lipstick or the new handbag designs by gucci and prada..someone whom would keep me amused by her intelligence, rants, brickbats and opinions on things and not just rely on her physical attributes to keep me amused, altho it will for a period of time i admit! i'm a guy for God's sake!
I admit i'm not a gorgeous catwalk hunk with a six peck for a tummy, i'm just a normal guy who walks in shopping malls with a tummy and a silly grin on my face. I know i wouldn't be able to pull girls like flies with my looks nor would i be able to pull girls with my brains...I'm just a simple guy who knows or at least thinks he knows what he wants from a girl. I'm not looking for some gorgeous babe who is good in bed, i'm satisfied if she is plain ordinary looking or just pleasing to look at, but the more important thing for me is her personality and character. I mean looks will go off once you reach a certain age, things start sagging, wrinkles all over and cellulite might make an appearance too!! no operations involved of course! but what stays with you the rest of your life is your personality and character. i dun think my sexual appetite/libido will still be there once i'm 65 ok!!! altho i do hope for it!!!I just want someone whom i can still have a healthy conversation with, not bitchy all the time, some of the time is ok..basically someone whom i'm comfortable with in my old age so i won't die of boredom first!
Am i asking for too much? Am i asking for the perfect girl? Is it wrong for me to want something? Is it wrong for me to dream of getting someone like how i described, i think not. The catch or precaution is always that you have to keep an open mind about these things. You cannot expect a claire forlani with the brains of a NASA scientist, altho there are a few like that!! You have to look at yourself truthfully and think, who will be attracted to a guy like you? then you can scale down your expectations and hope for the best.
posted by FZM at 2/03/2006 11:27:00 AM
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