Weddings!
Hi everyone,
It was an interesting weekend for me. Attended a wedding on sat nite, it was a cousins wedding that was held in a hall in cheras. And mind you, i'm shite in cheras, couldn't find my way round at all and got lost a couple of times, but we still managed to get there on time. Phew, or i would have gotten a right rollocking from my parents.
Neways, as usual, the cousins will sit together, the aunts and uncles will sit together and so on and so forth. The normal banter will start, everyone catching up on what has been happening, gossips...you know the normal stuff.
Well, i was seated at a table with my two sisters and some other cousins, Kak S and Kak L. Both of which i am close. Both are also married with kids, TWINS!! Both Kak S and Kak L has a set each!! heh...at another table was Kak N. Also another cousin whom i am close to. Kak N is the eldest amongst us cousins.
Well, as usual, the topic of marriages came up and not suprisingly, my topic came up and they started fussing about it. This cousin asking this and that cousin asking that, but basically, they were wondering when was it my turn. I said, well, as for now, i'm pretty much single and having a blast so i'm not actively looking for anyone to occupy my time. Then they started asking whether Kak N's daughter had any good looking friends who are single, they wanted to match mate me!! God....its not that i dun want to find a girlfriend, i'm just not looking for any, and anyways, i dun think anyone would actually want me....so its mutual!! heh..in a sick kinda way..
Then Kak L asked me about my sex life? out of the blue ok, i was stunned? i mean what the hell? heh..i was non plussed and started to re-enact how a fish looked like!! heheh...mouth open and shut trying to think of an intelligent retort, but alas, i could only manage a smile...and for those who you who might be wondering, i'm still not going to answer..i'll leave it to your fertile imaginations!
Anyways, the thing is, why is it that everytime there is a wedding, everyone starts asking the bachelor and bachelorettes when will it be their time. i mean hello....some of us just don't intend to get married and then some of us are just not priveledge enuff to find a partner whom we want to spend our lives with. I mean, initially when i was with A, i wanted to marry her, we were even discussing about our engagement...but it never panned out obviously....but now that i've been single for almost 2 years, i'm pretty much ok with my current situation.
It really gets me(not upset or anything, just irritated thats all) when people ask me when i'm going to get married, dah ader girlfriend ker belum, can i match-mate you, i've got a friend whom would be perfect for you, can i arrange a soiree( is this the right usage?)...what the heck!!! Because of this kinda questions, i'm kinda put off marriages, attending them i mean, unless its a really close relative or friend, then i wouldn't mind going....
AARRGGHH!!
It was an interesting weekend for me. Attended a wedding on sat nite, it was a cousins wedding that was held in a hall in cheras. And mind you, i'm shite in cheras, couldn't find my way round at all and got lost a couple of times, but we still managed to get there on time. Phew, or i would have gotten a right rollocking from my parents.
Neways, as usual, the cousins will sit together, the aunts and uncles will sit together and so on and so forth. The normal banter will start, everyone catching up on what has been happening, gossips...you know the normal stuff.
Well, i was seated at a table with my two sisters and some other cousins, Kak S and Kak L. Both of which i am close. Both are also married with kids, TWINS!! Both Kak S and Kak L has a set each!! heh...at another table was Kak N. Also another cousin whom i am close to. Kak N is the eldest amongst us cousins.
Well, as usual, the topic of marriages came up and not suprisingly, my topic came up and they started fussing about it. This cousin asking this and that cousin asking that, but basically, they were wondering when was it my turn. I said, well, as for now, i'm pretty much single and having a blast so i'm not actively looking for anyone to occupy my time. Then they started asking whether Kak N's daughter had any good looking friends who are single, they wanted to match mate me!! God....its not that i dun want to find a girlfriend, i'm just not looking for any, and anyways, i dun think anyone would actually want me....so its mutual!! heh..in a sick kinda way..
Then Kak L asked me about my sex life? out of the blue ok, i was stunned? i mean what the hell? heh..i was non plussed and started to re-enact how a fish looked like!! heheh...mouth open and shut trying to think of an intelligent retort, but alas, i could only manage a smile...and for those who you who might be wondering, i'm still not going to answer..i'll leave it to your fertile imaginations!
Anyways, the thing is, why is it that everytime there is a wedding, everyone starts asking the bachelor and bachelorettes when will it be their time. i mean hello....some of us just don't intend to get married and then some of us are just not priveledge enuff to find a partner whom we want to spend our lives with. I mean, initially when i was with A, i wanted to marry her, we were even discussing about our engagement...but it never panned out obviously....but now that i've been single for almost 2 years, i'm pretty much ok with my current situation.
It really gets me(not upset or anything, just irritated thats all) when people ask me when i'm going to get married, dah ader girlfriend ker belum, can i match-mate you, i've got a friend whom would be perfect for you, can i arrange a soiree( is this the right usage?)...what the heck!!! Because of this kinda questions, i'm kinda put off marriages, attending them i mean, unless its a really close relative or friend, then i wouldn't mind going....
AARRGGHH!!
posted by FZM at 2/06/2006 10:03:00 AM
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