relationships!
Hi...
I'm sure some of ou must have read my previous posting and how i am in a bind over relationships, this is to put it very midly of course...
well, over the weekend, this topic of relationships came up again and again....
I've got a rather close friend of mine whom, i would say is a more of a playboy type of person than i am, and well, he just dropped a bombshell informing us that he will be getting married next month to his girlfriend whom he has known for about a year...i saw total bliss in his eyes, the sigh of contentment and that kinda look when you are deeply in love, i saw that in his future wife too....the amazing thing is, i never thot this guy would want to settle down this fast, i'be known him for about 3 years and we go out quite often, he never was the sort of person to settle down...and amazingly, he is and will by next month.....congratulations bro...
another thing happened over the weekend too, the next day in fact, well, technically the next day..i was hanging out at heritage row with a couple of friends, some of which i had just met that nite and 1 girl whom i have been going out with, not every day or every couple of days mind you, but like once a week kind of thing...but we have known each other for ages and ages. anyways, a friend of this girl informed me that the girls parents want to hook up with her....how amazing is that! that friend of hers knows the parents very well and thats how her parents told her to tell me if ever she met up with me....so there i was, flabbergasted that someones parents want me to hook up with their daughter, i mean i've only met the parents like once and that was like ages ago!!! anyways...obviously, for those of you who know me, the answer was a resounding NO! dun get me wrong, the girl is a nice person, i like her character and her nonchalant way of looking at things, her fun way of looking at life and her looks....she is as always, perfect in her own very way...but then again, its me who is at fault here....i'm not looking for one....
and last nite...i had the dreaded relationship conversation with my mum again...this never ever fails to crop up whenever we have a talk....there she goes about me getting old and bla and bla and bla....she was commenting me about the girls whom i have been going out with and at the same time i'm updating her about the girls whom i am going out with, but strictly as friends...no more no less.....anyways, bottom line, she wants to see me get married or at the very least have a relationshp so she knows that someone is looking after me...i love my mum with all my heart but i had to break it by saying i'm not ready yet for one....
so in 3 days, i've had 3 different relationship issues or matters that was brought up...amazing aint it.....neways, as my previous posting..not yet....
on another tangent, i'm now in the midst of preparing for my taiwan paintball excursion and we had a brutal training cum skirmish session over the weekened...brutal since we had to go up against some of the best teams available and punishing because we pushed our selves to the limit by playing 9 games in about 4 hours....normally, we play about 6 games on a tourney day, but this was 9! well, we lost 2, so the percentage was not all that bad....so this final 2 weeks before the tournament will be meeting and discussions to finalise all the logistical and tactical stuff....
this week also i'm watching grease with my ex and some of her friends....haven't met her for ages...so i can't wait....i've got to tell her to decide soon on when she wants to go since i need to schedule my paintball meetings around it...
anyways, thats all for now...
I'm sure some of ou must have read my previous posting and how i am in a bind over relationships, this is to put it very midly of course...
well, over the weekend, this topic of relationships came up again and again....
I've got a rather close friend of mine whom, i would say is a more of a playboy type of person than i am, and well, he just dropped a bombshell informing us that he will be getting married next month to his girlfriend whom he has known for about a year...i saw total bliss in his eyes, the sigh of contentment and that kinda look when you are deeply in love, i saw that in his future wife too....the amazing thing is, i never thot this guy would want to settle down this fast, i'be known him for about 3 years and we go out quite often, he never was the sort of person to settle down...and amazingly, he is and will by next month.....congratulations bro...
another thing happened over the weekend too, the next day in fact, well, technically the next day..i was hanging out at heritage row with a couple of friends, some of which i had just met that nite and 1 girl whom i have been going out with, not every day or every couple of days mind you, but like once a week kind of thing...but we have known each other for ages and ages. anyways, a friend of this girl informed me that the girls parents want to hook up with her....how amazing is that! that friend of hers knows the parents very well and thats how her parents told her to tell me if ever she met up with me....so there i was, flabbergasted that someones parents want me to hook up with their daughter, i mean i've only met the parents like once and that was like ages ago!!! anyways...obviously, for those of you who know me, the answer was a resounding NO! dun get me wrong, the girl is a nice person, i like her character and her nonchalant way of looking at things, her fun way of looking at life and her looks....she is as always, perfect in her own very way...but then again, its me who is at fault here....i'm not looking for one....
and last nite...i had the dreaded relationship conversation with my mum again...this never ever fails to crop up whenever we have a talk....there she goes about me getting old and bla and bla and bla....she was commenting me about the girls whom i have been going out with and at the same time i'm updating her about the girls whom i am going out with, but strictly as friends...no more no less.....anyways, bottom line, she wants to see me get married or at the very least have a relationshp so she knows that someone is looking after me...i love my mum with all my heart but i had to break it by saying i'm not ready yet for one....
so in 3 days, i've had 3 different relationship issues or matters that was brought up...amazing aint it.....neways, as my previous posting..not yet....
on another tangent, i'm now in the midst of preparing for my taiwan paintball excursion and we had a brutal training cum skirmish session over the weekened...brutal since we had to go up against some of the best teams available and punishing because we pushed our selves to the limit by playing 9 games in about 4 hours....normally, we play about 6 games on a tourney day, but this was 9! well, we lost 2, so the percentage was not all that bad....so this final 2 weeks before the tournament will be meeting and discussions to finalise all the logistical and tactical stuff....
this week also i'm watching grease with my ex and some of her friends....haven't met her for ages...so i can't wait....i've got to tell her to decide soon on when she wants to go since i need to schedule my paintball meetings around it...
anyways, thats all for now...
posted by FZM at 5/15/2006 09:41:00 AM
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